@peutetre Or it's a pure seniority-based lockstep bonus, which means that no matter how hard you work, you never get recognition for the 100s of hours more than your colleagues you put in.
The worst of both worlds is salaried pay, but bill your time to clients by the hour. You get $X/year, but your BOSS makes more money the more you work. Hm...
I have been putting off applying to Yale's LLM program like nobody's business. I need to sit down this weekend before another grueling week of work travel and send my LSAT scores and GPA, then start writing my essays over my luxurious one-day Thanksgiving break. So I guess my 1 Thing might actually be to go back in time and not be a corporate lawyer?
@Mae The difference between mortgage rates and student loan (and credit card) interest rates exists primarily because one is secured debt and one's unsecured. Interest rates are the cost of money. Money that's riskier for the lender costs more. With secured debt like a mortgage, the creditor is entitled to the property if the debtor defaults, so the risk is lower. Same with an auto loan. But you can't repossess someone's education if they default on the loan they took to get it. I'm not saying 6.8% is the inherently correct number (particularly given that it's set by statute and doesn't track treasury rates significantly) but there's an explanation other than subsidization of one social good over another.
In DC it's impossible to avoid the question. I'm certainly guilty of it, but I also don't mind when people answer brusquely or glibly. If asked in a social situation, I generally reply, "I bust trusts."
Are there really landlords who will refuse to give back a security deposit if their tenants don't do a deep professional-level clean!? I've always heard "broom clean," plus charges for anything above ordinary wear and tear (that's what's in the lease for our tenant). In fact, it seems vaguely unfair to require otherwise- one of the expenses of being a landlord is repairs and maintenance, and you can't exactly threaten you tenants with losing their security deposits if they aren't also willing to be your free handymen, landscapers, painters, floor-refinishers, and cleaners...
Unfortunately, this isn't true for pick-ups. Cabbies using those apps to find fares can and do reject them based on where they're calling from. I live in city where Uber (yup, naming and shaming) operates, in a 95% black neighborhood, although I myself am not black. It is IMPOSSIBLE to get an Uber cab or sedan to pick me up at my house. If I drop the pin right across the street from my house, fifty feet away, at a university that is not majority-black, a cab or sedan suddenly becomes available, no problem.
This is the sunk cost fallacy in action. You have already put effort into doing something (waiting in line for the snack, choosing and going to the restaurant) so you don't want to "waste" the effort, and end up buying something you don't really want/staying at the noisy restaurant. You just have to remind yourself that sunk costs are sunk, and then you're less likely to settle. (Defnitely works best if you are alone and not with a bunch of people, who tend to annoyed as you walk around trying to optimize while they get hungrier and hungrier! We call this an externality.)
@alpacasloth I am not a family lawyer, but I do know that in some jurisdictions, it's important for BOTH parties to be represented by SEPARATE counsel. It's actually a factor the judge looks at when deciding whether the agreement was entered into voluntarily. Not voluntary = no pre-nup. (So don't just take a sample off the Internet and sign it in front of a notary. It might not hold up when you need it.)
@@fo Great advice! I'm actually a lawyer and I made sure we were tenants by the entirety when we bought a house. Short story: it's the only way you can make sure that your spouse's individual creditor can't get at your house, it means you automatically get the property if your spouse dies, your spouse can't sell your house without your consent, etc.