On Monday Check-In

@amglory89 Thanks, everyone! It was totally awesome, and I'd be happy to write a post about it once I get caught up on my sleep. I don't know if it's weird to share photos with people I don't know, but I love them so much. If you're interested in seeing a few, here they are: Me: http://bit.ly/109t7xe, http://bit.ly/ZhT7Mh Us: http://bit.ly/109tdou

Posted on April 22, 2013 at 1:12 pm 0

On Monday Check-In

I didn't do an estimate Friday because I was at City Hall tying the knot and kicking off a weekend of partying. It was wonderful, and I didn't even worry about the spend (though I did check all itemized receipts for accuracy). Here's a rough breakdown: $250- hairstyles for Friday City Hall ceremony and Saturday party $320- makeup artist for myself and my mom on Friday (mom paid $200) and myself on Saturday ($120 with tip) $200- 1hr rental of a 1969 checker cab to take us from a photography session in Central Park to City Hall on Friday $1500: Photographer and assistant for 4.5hrs (on top of a $500 deposit paid in January) Other wedding costs (paid out of husband's bonus, thank goodness) $35: Marriage license $60: Cabs Friday and Saturday $1750: Tasting menu dinner Friday night for 18 close friends and family members $600: Dinner Saturday night before cocktail party reception, 19 close friends and family members. Mostly the same people from Friday, with a few differences. $3350: Cocktail party for ~60 people at a swanky lounge, open bar, some food (hummus/pita and chips/guac). Includes tax and tip. Total for big events, excluding dress ($500 with alterations), rings ($5000, bought in Dec) and decor (~$200): $7,615. Worth every penny for an amazing weekend of celebrating our marriage.

Posted on April 22, 2013 at 11:14 am 2

On Monday Check-In

I clicked back to my Friday estimate ($415) with trepidation, but I am amazed that I was only over budget by $1.21. And I found $21 on the street in the East Village, so I'm technically under budget. Here goes: Friday - My sister got an offer for a great new job that will get her out of her current crummy work environment. I am very proud and sent her some flowers to be there when she got home from work: $48 - Supplies for dinner guests on Friday: $59 (bought a new chunk of the good Parmesan and a few incidentals). Estimate was $40. Saturday, wedding odds and ends: - Cupcake toppers: $105, total cost $114 with tax - A sparkly gold box for holding our chocolate party favors: $20.63 - New daily-wear Smashbox eyeshadow from Sephora. I could not scrape any more out of my current one: $20.69 - Taking guests out on the town. Fiance generously covered my share of dinner, so I bought everyone pudding for dessert afterward: $29 - Found $21 outside a bar in the East Village around 1am, with nobody immediately around to claim it. I picked it up and will use it for cabfare for a friend who's helping schlep wedding stuff to the party venue on Saturday. Sunday: - Wedding hairstyle tryouts: $104.50 + $20 tip=$124.50. Estimate was $170, so a good savings here. Grand total: $416.21-21=$395.21

Posted on April 15, 2013 at 11:28 am 0

On Friday Estimate

@Michelle LeBlanc@twitter If you're in New York, you should look into the hiking options accessible via MetroNorth. Lovely trails around Tuxedo on the NJ Transit Port Jervis line, for ~$20 round trip from Penn Station.

Posted on April 12, 2013 at 10:03 am 0

On Friday Estimate

Last weekend before my wedding, and even thought the wedding is quite low-key compared to the norm, the last-minute costs are creeping up. Here goes: Grocery shopping tonight to make dinner at home for first guests to arrive: $40, already have the wine. Confirming order for cupcake decorations with bakery: $105 Saturday: Who knows. Anywhere from $0 (hopefully) to $100 depending on incidentals and entertaining guests. Hairstyle try-out on Sunday : $170 incl. tip for two styles Total: $415. Gah. It's fine, though. Next weekend will be spendy, too. Then I'm going into hibernation for a few weeks money-wise.

Posted on April 12, 2013 at 10:02 am 0

On Once I Wanted to Be the Greatest at 1 Thing

Ben Folds and the Fraggles have the answer for you- Do It Anyway! http://www.nerdist.com/2012/09/exclusive-ben-folds-five-and-the-fraggles-sing-do-it-anyway/

Posted on April 11, 2013 at 1:03 pm 0

On Conference Survival Skills

The only thing worse than networking is being networked upon.

Posted on April 11, 2013 at 12:50 pm 0

On Come Hang Out With Us Today After Work

Happy Birthday, Billfold! I have been a loyal reader since the first day. I've very much enjoyed most of what I've read, and you've helped me break some bad habits and form some good ones. I have plans this evening, otherwise I would be there to buy you two a drink. It's the least I could do. Cheers!

Posted on April 4, 2013 at 5:08 pm 0

On Friday Estimate

I am hoping for a relatively cheap weekend since the month of April will be an expensive one. Saturday: Going to enjoy this lovely weather with a hike, either at Harriman State Park or perhaps near Cold Spring. Will pack lunches. Probably $14 for Metro North fare + $3 coffee for the ride. We may go to our local Irish pub for dinner afterward, as is our day hike tradition. If we split the bill, $20 for my half. Total=$37. Sunday: a nice lunch with a colleague to celebrate her passing the Foreign Service exam. $32 prix fixe, around $42 with tax and tip. Grocery shopping in the afternoon ($40) and some laundry ($6). Grand total= $125

Posted on March 29, 2013 at 11:33 am 0

On Small Victories

Congrats and way to go! It's not easy to implement behavior change. But if you do it incrementally, it adds up to big changes over the long run.

Posted on March 13, 2013 at 2:58 pm 2