O'Hare hot tip: go to a Frontera Fresco.
@lemonhead3159 @Tripleoxer Ya, maybe there's some down payment assistance program going on here...
I'm amazed you can get approved for a loan of that size with $3,000 in savings! How is that possible? Even if you got an FHA loan, $3000 would only get you an $85k house (assuming it's a 3.5% down payment). I have it in my head that I shouldn't think about homeownership until I have 5 figures worth of non-retirement savings.
@MemphisBlues There’s a difference between people who have to work on holidays because of consumerism gone out of control, and people who have ALWAYS had to work on holidays throughout modern history because they work in vital, life-or-death positions. People shopping on Thanksgiving is a really recent phenomenon. Yes, it’s driven by demand, but I think ethical shoppers should opt out of creating that demand. Peer pressure your friends to stay home on Thanksgiving! Also, plenty of stores are publicly opting out of staying open on Thanksgiving. Stores don't have to cater to that demand--ethical business leadership matters, too.
@KatNotCat I didn't say it was cheating, but I did say I would strongly prefer not to eat out. I only cook maybe once a week because I'm in grad school part time and work full time--my husband usually cooks 2x a week. I really like cooking and feel like how little I cook is a big drain on my quality of life, and I wish I had more time to cook, so holidays where I don't have work or homework hanging over me are kind of liberating. I also don't host Thanksgiving, but I contribute to cooking wherever I attend it (my husband and I usually do 1 dish each). I fully acknowledge that I might enjoy it less if it were something imposed on me, or if I didn't know how to cook, or if I normally felt pressured to make a home-cooked dinner every night of the week and Thanksgiving dinner were just an escalation of that.
Not cheating exactly, but I would NOT be happy about it. I am of a school of thought that equates cooking for others as a high form of love, which may or may not be a character flaw. I very much enjoy being part of Thanksgiving preparations. In 26 years, I've never had a restaurant Thanksgiving, regardless of whether I spend it with my huge family or my husband's tiny family. I do not want people to be at work on Thanksgiving! but, I recognize that my track record of 100% home-cooked Thanksgiving is largely due to my good fortune, not some sort of moral superiority. I hope I can keep it up foreverrrr.
is there such a thing as part-time jobs that provide full benefits?
@EM I think the main difference between our honeymoon and regular couple travel was that we splurged a little more on the honeymoon--stayed a nicer hotels, ate at nicer restaurants, etc. Some places offer packages where they leave a bottle of champagne and chocolates in the room, but it's cheaper to just buy your own champagne and chocolates...
my workplace does crosstraining, asks people to document how to do their jobs, and keeps track of passwords as a matter of course. that's just a good management practice, imho. but yeah, if it comes out of nowhere...
On Jimmy John's Non-Compete Agreement Bans Employees From Working at Restaurants that Serve Sandwiches
I never understood the appeal of Jimmy John's. They're just normal sandwiches, made of cold cuts and bread? Sandwiches I could make myself? If I buy a sandwich, I want it to be something FANCY. At least melt the cheese for me. So, no love lost here.