Hah. This strikes home for me a lot. Not because I blog about money, but because, as a freelancer who's just starting out, I am broke as hell most of the time, and every time I say I can't afford something, my friend's husband jokes that it's because I'm Jewish (yeah, he's an asshole). And yet -- I can't afford shit! I am broke! What am I supposed to do in that situation?! Spend money I don't have to avoid bullshit bigotry? So instead I just laugh awkwardly.
I made the same decision and while I've regretted it sometimes, the fact is my student loans are almost gone, I have a well-paying job as an illustrator, and I'm pretty happy.
I don't know why, but this KILLED me. BRB off to shoot self and/or invest in a pyramid scheme.
Hmmm I don't know how billfold friendly my lessons were but here goes: 1. Spend your money now instead of saving it all for later, because you never know where life will take you and someday you might get in a horrific car accident that leaves you completely unable to travel for the rest of your life. (Both of my grandparents died young after hoarding all their money. They never did travel, unless you count traveling to Germany in World War 2!) 2. You can either be abandon your children until they're adults OR refuse to save for retirement, not both.
I'm a Jew and now I feel justified for putting my Hillel stuff on my first resume! Anyway, I'm guessing there are a few factors to this one. One thing I've found, in my limited experience, is that there are a LOT of non-Jews who see Jews as a "safe" minority. We look (are) white, sound white (no scary accents or weird slang!) and have many similar cultural markers to other white people, but we're also ~*different*~. Thus, you put Hillel on your resume, and the interviewer gets to pat himself on the back at how open-minded he is, without actually having to interact with someone who makes him feel uncomfortable.
@OllyOlly Admittedly I'm a freelance designer and not a freelance journalist, but I started freelancing because when I graduated from college I couldn't find a full-time job and I needed to supplement my income somehow. I'm still looking for a full-time job with benefits 3 years later.
These comments are making me feel SO much better than that article did! Glad to know I'm not the only one who spends most of the night hanging out! 5pm: workout at gym down the street. 6pm-6:30pm: evening commute. Answer emails, read, enjoy the dulcet tones of the DC metro system. 6:30pm: get home, eat a quick snack and shower (I hate showering at the gym.) 6:30-7pm: decompress for a bit. 7pm-8:30: cook and eat dinner with my partner while watching some tv. 8:30pm-11:30pm: depends what's going on. Usually clean up after dinner, putter around the house a bit, hang out with my partner, and watch tv or read -- UNLESS I have a freelance assignment (I'm hoping to quit my job to be a full-time freelancer pretty soon), and then all bets are off. Instead of cooking dinner, watching tv, etc, I just work until the assignment's done/I collapse into a heap. This happens maybe twice a week.
$150 every two weeks for two adults. We cook for nearly every meal, and try to have one recipe a week be a 'bulk' meal like stew or soup or something that we can use to pad things out. This doesn't include eating out, since I count that as part of my entertainment budget. Otherwise it'd be more like $200/2 weeks. We buy most of our groceries from Whole Foods since it's closest to our house and cheapest -- I know everyone says it's expensive, but I'm a crazy person and did a price check between it and the Safeway down the street and Whole Foods won by about $20/grocery run which is not chump change!
@Pumpkin I feel your pain... I quit a regular office job to work at a Whole Foods as a chalkboard artist, and my parents did this AWESOME thing where they told people I worked for Whole Foods corporate instead of just my little store. It was shitty and it was awkward to explain. I have no advice except to just keep telling yourself it's the right decision for you at this moment. On the other hand, when I eventually left it made that 'why are you leaving your current job' conversation so much easier. I just said "well, I don't want to work at a grocery store for my whole life," and my interviewers totally got it!
@frenz.lo you're so right about everything you just said. I recently had a (totally self-inflicted) financial crisis and the thought of another part-time job didn't cross my mind for one second until my boyfriend suggested it. But I got a second temp job, had a very stressful few weeks and am now in the black again and feeling much more confident about my financial future. It's a great option, if you can find one.