@WriteBikeBobbi ahhaha. Ok now I have googled these expensive pajamas and they are cute but not cute enough to warrant those prices. I feel like baby clothes should either be on sale Carters where they end up being like $3 a onesie or gifts from grandparents. Also googling flame retardant baby clothes and didn't even know it was a whole THING. Oh god.
@andnowlights you know, that is how I picture you in my head!
@Tams SO CUTE. He is a gnome, and the cost was just a pack of felt to make a cone hat and a Beard, so it all evens out right??!
@Megano wow! We are definitely leaning towards it. We saw a listing while we were there for a 3bdrm totally remodeled beautiful HOUSE w a yard and porch for $1525/mo. UGH of course it was taken when we emailed and every thing else seems more expensive. It was very rainy when we were there but GOD the food was great and the houses are so cute and the people were so nice.
@gridmonte Well I had never heard of this but now that I have googled it: YES.
@francesfrances hahaha, I THOUGHT YOU'D NEVER ASK! (jk) "Meaghan and her family were an absolute delight to have as guests. They were incredibly thoughtful and respectful of [our space] and we were sad to see them go. We hope they move to Portland!" *dusts off shoulder*
Lol guys I use cloth. We have six covers and a service that's $35/week, and it's WAY easy.
@lemonadefish hell yes
@twofish Yeah! WIth us, he was very like, I know I want to be with you forever and have children, etc., but the idea of a wedding did not / does not appeal to him. He said me wanting it made him want it. I was (am?) anxious about the idea of marriage and planning a wedding has no appeal for me. But I do want it!! I think ultimately I wanted him to want it enough to assuage my fears, let me avoid reconciling all of my hang ups, but that didn't happen. Which is probably for the best! We had to have a lot of vulnerable conversations, which I'm grateful for. But I don't blame people for wanting to avoid such a loaded subject. Saying what you want when you're not supposed to HAVE to say it is hard, in a world where being proposed to is conflated with being TRULY LOVED, etc.
@annev17 it's horrible!