@missvancity These sound like such beautiful, heartfelt gifts that hit that perfect spot of being both luxurious and useful. I would swoon if someone gave me a basket of homemade jam.
My last wedding present ramped up from the intended fifty-or-so bucks to $75-85 pretty fast: I (well, we) gave them the martini glasses from their registry, a cocktail shaker because the groom admired ours, a bottle of the gin preferred by the bride with a packet of cocktail swords with ribbon tied to the bottle neck, a bottle of vermouth, and a jar of fancy olives with a little olive fork tied with ribbon to the jar neck. It was a pretty impressive-looking array of stuff, I have to admit. Maybe some cocktail napkins too? Maybe a can of salted nuts? Aaaand that's why my present costs often escalate unexpectedly: I keep finding little things to add. Important note: we hand-delivered the wrapped gift to their home well before the wedding so they weren't lugging all this fragile, heavy stuff around.