@Sean Dailey@facebook It's great *if* you can afford a membership to a pool/gym/buy rock climbing gear/buy crossfit classes/etc.
Oh I want what looks like a small liberal arts college in my backyard! Or even a lake I could jump into. $500k goes so much further in some parts of the country.... (wonderful writing, ester!)
My aunt who lives in Southern California was informing me at the latest family gathering that *everybody* in her neighborhood has at least enhanced eyelashes, and she went and got hers done and I swear they are four times as thick as yours. She has refused to do more extensive altering to her body but I think it is much more A Thing out west. My aunt in Texas was informing me how she went and drove several hours to get her eyelashes done but probably wouldn't be doing it again because her husband didn't trust the doctor or something like that. Despite the wonders it would be of not having to deal with mascara rubbing off when exercising/swimming, I am too chicken and too cheap to do it myself.
I'm definitely feel more of the latter. Why don't men apologize more? It's like the Dove ads, you can be beautiful regardless of your shape/size/color -- but why are we still focusing on beauty as the Feature We All Want? Ugh.
We should have a DC Billfold hangout!
Wasn't there a This American Life story about a lawyer who read the fine print and said you could get the benefits of a policy even if you weren't directly related? And so then he got a bunch of people who were terminally ill to sign up for a policy; their family got a good chunk of the funds and he got the rest. Legal? Ethical? Moral? Etc.
--I remember being given a quarter or two as a child when I went out "in case I ever needed to use a pay phone, it's good to have change on hand." -- We all learned there are people on the street who will try to scam you and most strangers who approach you with a gold ring they found and will give it to you to sell assuming you give them money are in fact not telling the truth about the value of the "found" ring. -- When my parents were first married they budgeted for one parking ticket a month (though they did pay them off). -- No allowances. Sometimes my sister and I could earn 1 penny for every two weeds we pulled. -- Quality over quantity, with everything, but especially food. -- Watch out for exchange rates! They can get you.
Somebody should really set up a rental shop for bridal gowns. I know rent the runway has some, but oh please, I don't need to keep this dress or spend thousands and thousands on it. Also, @noreally, that is so excellent to know! I will tell my sister.
I have monthly contact lenses and usually stretch them out further, mostly because I forget but also because I am cheap and also, what if one rips or tears and I need a back up pair? I do often take them out when I get home and switch to glasses, though.
Wait, you totally should look to see if there are students who need practice. It sounds scary, but they are all supervised by their instructors. It will be cheaper. Kind of like when you go to a swanky hair cut place downtown that can't charge you (at all or full price) because their students need 1000 hours of practice. Look into it, maybe at Columbia as well?