On Lost Your iPad? Buy It Back In Alabama

I read that someone got a notification from the "find my ipad" app that their ipad was turned on and it turned out to be at this place. She contacted them and they returned the ipad to her right away. I may have even read this in a comment on this site?

Posted on November 26, 2014 at 11:25 am 0

On In College and in Search of Free Food

My neighbor when I was a grad student kept showing up at events he didn't really have any connection to, events that happened to have food. I found out that he had subscribed to a Free Food listserv that collected all the advertised events that offered free food in one place. That is like, next level. Also, I'm not very squeamish, but the idea of eating someone else's leftovers kind of grosses me out. If it's fresh, like the day they cooked it, fine. But you know how when you reheat food and it's a little smushed and weird but you know how it looked originally and you know that it tastes good and how long it's been in the fridge so it's not a problem? If I just got, like, a mystery tupperware that had been sitting around for a while... hell no.

Posted on November 25, 2014 at 5:25 am 0

On Flying Over The Ocean in Economy Class

You can fly very cheap on Norwegian Air, which runs a shuttle from NY to London (Gatwick, not Heathrow). You get one checked bag for free, but food and picking your own seat (!) is extra. If you don't care about that stuff though, it's a very cheap direct flight. (I paid around 400 one way) Unfortunately for going back to NY for Christmas we couldn't book on Norwegian for some reason so we have to do Iceland air which is soooo much longer with the layover in Reykjavik. And is also bare-bones but the cheapest option.

Posted on November 23, 2014 at 10:22 am 0

On Here Is Your Open Thread

@Elyse Haha this reminds me of a story a friend told me about her much younger sister from when she visited her family after leaving for college. The little sister had her own bathroom attached to her bedroom, my friend was in this bathroom briefly while visiting with her sister and noticed there was no toilet paper, thought to get some to replace it then forgot. Then a couple days later she is in that bathroom again and still no TP. Then she notices the state of the hand towel.... she asks the sister about it and the sister just says she was too lazy to bother replacing the roll... I think she was pretty little, but older to know better, like 7 or 8.

Posted on November 15, 2014 at 7:28 am 0

On Here Is Your Open Thread

@cryptolect I have always puzzled about this too! I have had two roommates who were adult women who seemed to be normal functional people in their public life, but were just so dysfunctional at home. This must mean that many people we know but have never seen their homes must be total surprise slobs! The first one was I was only subletting with for the summer. I arranged the place without seeing it in person as I was coming from another state for a summer program, and she seemed like a normal person. That's when I learned that seeming like a normal person means nothing! The bathroom looked like it hadn't been cleaned in months. The bathtub was covered in a fine layer of mold; floors, toilet, sink are dirty. Kitchen floor is dirty and counter tops are cluttered with things like: stacks of take-out coffee cups. I understand the re-use recycle impulse, but jesus. Get yourself a reusable mug if the waste bothers you that much! I didn't want to do a deep clean of the apt. right away because I thought she might be offended. Boy was I right. I waited about a week and a half, suffering through having to use a filthy bathroom. Then I cleaned everything, and she still made a comment, like, "if you thought it was so dirty you should have told me". Some people clean their bathrooms every 1-3 weeks even if it isn't totally filthy, but somehow my cleaning the apartment after 1.5 weeks was taken as an insult. But after that it was relatively clean for the 3 months I was there, who knows what happened after I left. The second bad roommate I had I lived with for a year. We hadn't set up a chore-sharing system because I thought as 3 adults with normal adult responsibilities it would just be normal. One of my two roommates never once cleaned the bathroom the entire year we lived together. My other roommate and I just switched off. She would also not clean up after cooking. There would be a cutting board with peels and ends of veggies she had prepared for dinner, and would just leave the whole thing for days, rotting and smelling. And she refused to wipe any food debris/crumbs off the counter after food prep. She would leave dirty dishes on the counters and dinner table. Eventually I told her that if she was going to leave dirty dishes could she at least stack them in the sink and wipe down the counter after cooking and throw out food garbage. She said okay but didn't talk to me for like a week. I just started putting her dirty things in the sink, but then the sink would be full of dishes and not available for the other roommates to use. She would just leave trash around forever until someone else threw it away. It's like once she set something down it became invisible to her. We tried to alternate taking out the trash but every time it was her turn she would wait until the trash was over flowing out the top of the bag, so of course someone else would take it out. Then she would make some comment like, I was just about to take it out. She would also use our shared dining table as a work space and leave all of her things there, books, papers, laptop, stacks of old newspapers etc such that if you ever wanted to use the table you had to move all of her stuff into a pile on the floor. I don't understand how people can be professionally successful and that lazy/dysfunctional at home. Also inconsiderate! This second roommate in particular had not a care in the world how her habits were affecting a shared living space.

Posted on November 15, 2014 at 7:19 am 1

On Coffee vs Diet Coke vs a Pure, Uncaffeinated Life

@siege91 I agree. As someone who didn't start drinking coffee until grad school, drank it regularly for about 5 years, and is now off again for the last 6 months or so, I can confirm that the caffeine high is nothing that can be obtained naturally, at least not by me. I do think it's possible that the caffeine crash may not be worth the high, but that's another matter entirely.

Posted on September 28, 2014 at 12:08 pm 0

On The Costs of Living in Kazakhstan

The difference in cost between produce and eating out probably has something to do with income inequality... poor people are probably not eating at the restaurants that she is going to, or even at all.

Posted on September 8, 2014 at 2:06 pm 0

On The Ultimate Hummus Showdown

Wondering what the ingredient list of the packaged hummus is....

Posted on September 5, 2014 at 12:07 pm 0

On Chatting About Tuna Noodle Casseroles, Jell-O, and the American Iron Housewife

@cryptolect Yeah, I've heard of putting honey on cereal but not sugar.

Posted on July 19, 2014 at 7:16 pm 0

On WWYD With a Five Figure Check?

As for the 10 grand, I would pay off any loans. If no loans, I would put it towards an emergency fund (6-9 months of living costs in an easily available location like a savings account). If you already have the emergency fund I would put it into investment, and set a little aside for a special purchase or treat (probably less than a grand). Boring, but rewarding.

Posted on May 29, 2014 at 6:10 pm 3