On The Cost of Calling Off an Engagement

I can't believe both women gave back their engagement rings! If the giver of the ring calls it off, the receiver should DEFINITELY keep it.

Posted on October 10, 2014 at 3:28 pm 2

On Two Weddings, One Summer

I'm shocked that the bride had the foresight to warn you there would be nothing for you to eat, but not to place at least one veggie option on the menu.

Posted on August 29, 2014 at 11:19 am 0

On Tipping by State

At sit-down restaurants I tip 20% for dinner, 15-18% for anything else, unless the service was stellar. At bars I usually pay cash, so I'll give a dollar per drink no matter the price (usually a $5-6 beer). I don't eat at food trucks that often, but I don't tip there when I do. The way I see it, they might be assembling my meal (like a burrito or something), but I don't tip at Chipotle so it doesn't make sense to tip at the food truck. I don't normally tip at coffee shops either. There is one where I tip because they have two tip bowls, each with something different written on it, and you vote for one with your tips. It's mundane things like which dog breed you like better, but it's cute and often clever. For services like nails, hair, and massage, I always tip around 20%.

Posted on May 1, 2014 at 6:43 pm 0

On Listening to Music While Working

I can only listen to classical music when working, and when I really need to concentrate (like on writing a paper) it can only be instrumental. I get distracted if it's opera or chant because I might know or understand the lyrics, and the voices are so beautiful that I want to focus on them.

Posted on March 10, 2014 at 1:52 pm 0

On I Literally Only Spend My Money on Coffee and Food

The lines in that Trader Joe's are INSANE, though. I go to Fairway just a couple blocks north and take the bags on the 1. Really glad I started doing that.

Posted on February 6, 2014 at 11:33 pm 0

On My Last Hundred Bucks, Spent Mostly at the Airport

You are not alone in your trashy mags only in airports habit.

Posted on January 15, 2014 at 3:19 pm 0

On Time to Figure It Out

I'm not sure I like the Anthony Bourdain story at the end. It's very popular when giving advice to young people to say that [insert famous person here] didn't have his/her act together until they were older. I think it's perfectly fine not to have things completely figured out in your early twenties, but the fact is that if you live hand to mouth into your 30s, you're probably not going to come out in a comfortable financial position. I'm not talking about the writer specifically, but most of us are not going to strike it rich in our 40s. Sure, take risks! But make sure it's calculated, like the rest of the response suggests.

Posted on December 18, 2013 at 5:59 pm 4

On I Have 1 Job Offer and 1 Interview, What Should I Do?

I was once yelled at by an interviewer who hadn't yet made me an offer when I told her that I had accepted another offer (a way better one). I hadn't meant to deceive her into thinking she had more time to decide, and she was wrong to yell at me, but it made me realize that it's better to be crystal clear about your timeline to avoid burned bridges. I agree with the commenters who say to ask Company X for a firm deadline and let Company Y know about it.

Posted on November 18, 2013 at 10:39 pm 0

On Interview With a Woman Who Wants to Pay for Her Boyfriend But He Won't Let Her

Girlfriend needs to wake the hell up.

Posted on September 19, 2013 at 7:52 pm 2

On I Am Fastidiously Frugal And Exorbitantly Flagrant (Because: Balance) (And: Parents)

My parents are the same way. My dad taught me to collect and roll all my change when I was about 3 years old, and it's one of my favorite annual activities. Never use Coinstar--what a rip-off! Through my mom's influence, though, I willingly spend $300 on nice work pumps. I am entering her career, so she taught me that it's important to look the part!

Posted on May 24, 2013 at 2:33 pm 0