@Meaghano Oh, I suppose we all have our particular hells to go through with newborns :-) Sounds like you're doing quite awesome, all things considered! We're at week 10, and it's SO much better than the first four weeks. If I ever talk about having another baby, I have instructed my husband to remind me of those, and that will be all I need to return to the idea that 1 baby is best! :)
I know breastfeeding is hard at times (inconvenient, painful at times, ugh cracked nipples) -- but take it from a new mama who cried for a week because she was unable to breastfeed: you're lucky :)
We had a good experience with our realtor and he really fought for us (we live in an area of Colorado where the real estate market is never, ever "down," and houses fly off the market). But the mortgage brokers? Not so much. We were told, "You know, you could get a loan for double this amount easily if you wanted." We were encouraged to Buy More House, Buy More House. They do not have clients' best interests in mind whatsoever! And we are quite happy with our modestly-priced (for our area) home in need of upgrades, because our mortgage will never, ever be a challenge to make each month.
I understand Meaghan! I'm 2 weeks away from also wishing for a dilated cervix. Get. This. Kid. OUT OF ME! My one thing is to finish packing a hospital bag. And my husband's one thing (which I have assigned him, ha!) is to install the car seat bases because he will do it right, whereas I will say "this looks good enough I guess" and likely endanger our soon-to-arrive spawn's safety. Supermom already!
I'm 37 weeks. My baby was breech, and my doc suggested acupuncture to try and turn him. No success, though I did enjoy some aspects of acupuncture (and I had an external version procedure which worked to turn him, thankfully). My acupuncturist said he's had definite success with inducing and we can explore that when the time draws near. I'm going to try it. Sex has worked for some friends, not for others; the tea and herbs, etc., not so much. But given how I feel now, I imagine when I hit 40 weeks that I'll be willing to give anything a shot to get the baby OUT :-)
I LOVE my bicycle. When we lived in Washington D.C. biking was a bit terrifying -- but now we live in small town Colorado, and I road bike 50+ mile rides whenever I can, because it brings me joy. Takes a bit of extra effort to bike commute to work, but so worth it.
Most important sentence in here: "A degree is not a guarantee of anything, unfortunately." I have an MFA. Three year program, full funding, teaching appointment. And now - whoopdedoo! There are about a million other folks with MFAs, all battling over the perhaps three quality teaching jobs in the country. Masters degree doesn't = professor, and it sure doesn't = a great creative writing position. Though if you want to work your butt off teaching comp for $20,000 a year, well then - an MFA could be just the thing for you! I am thankful a full-time tenured teaching gig was not my goal.
Good score on a DC place! We (my now-husband and me; back then we were just shackin' up) lived in Georgetown, in a 400-square foot basement studio apartment for $595 a month, all utils included. We considered it the best deal in Georgetown, despite the occasional cockroach :) Now, with a much larger house to clean and maintain, I sometimes long for those simple, cheap days!
@andnowlights So true! Appliances are hard - some people say only Memorial Day / Black Friday times are good to buy, but I disagree. We saved more than $400 and had free labor (a good pal) to help install everything, and didn't have to pay delivery fees because we could borrow a truck. So we went for it. I love seeing those discounts on my receipt :-)
This weekend we went to Lowe's in search of a new ceiling fan. We left with a refrigerator, dishwasher, some new lighting and three ceiling fans. Not entirely unplanned -- we knew we'd need some new big-ticket items in the kitchen and had been keeping an eye out. We happened to find the style and brand we liked on sale, and then got extra savings on top of that by asking, and by using military discount (they give one to veterans, yay). So our modest weekend of home projects turned into a $3,000+ weekend of home projects. Very happy with the outcomes though.