@DebtOrAlive You beat me to write this!
"the amount of money we spend on our kids’ activities and the energy we put into taking care of their needs." I'm in the wrong generation. I too am amazed at how much my friends and fam spend on their adult kids. Esp with buying them nicer toys (smart phones...) than they have, and paying for activities/exotic vacations so the kids spend time with them. It wouldn't be so bad, except (literally) no one can afford to do this. They are taking on debt to take kids (+ friends) to Spain. My sister missed mortgage payments to build a pool cuz she thought a pool would entice her 36 yo daughter to visit. She doesn't care to swim.
Wonder what his/her Dream City is.
@TheDoctorsCompanion That thought occurred to me too.
@moreadventurous Obvious product placement.
I live in a town where you check books out yourself. Wonder how many they "lose"'.
Wonder if it's frozen, homemade or delivered? If delivered, does he buy several days amount at a time?
@garli Yeah. And he found someone to marry him! Wonder what she eats.
@TrotskyHoldsMyiPod As usual, I agree with Waydownsouth. Another suggestion is to ask for a mid year review.