On On My Own: Figuring Out How to Pay for College After My Parents Cut Me Off

The $24K is tuition plus room and board for in-state students at Cal Poly. I doubt the writer is getting financial aid, which would probably be a Pell Grant based on FAFSA. This makes trying to get more aid from the college FA office unlikely (though that sounds like a great private-school ploy!). That said, the FA office might be able to help you with a quick, low-interest loan, steer you toward some good work-study jobs, or have some discretionary money to help you out temporarily. Second the idea of taking a bit of time off (even a semester or a year might be enough) to work full-time and save. Good luck! Your attitude seems much more positive than mine would be after being presented w/this sudden parental decision.

Posted on October 24, 2014 at 6:56 pm 1

On On Keeping a Clean Home

Take the silver! You don't have to use it right now--just put it away and it will be there when you want it.

Posted on October 16, 2014 at 7:59 pm 1

On How a 'Sugar Baby' Does Money

@Elsajeni That's what I was wondering too. Also wondered a bit about the men who would want this rather than a more traditional "younger" girlfriend. Somewhat surprised at how fascinating I found this interview. Thanks, Anon, for being so open and responding so thoughtfully. Made me think about things in a different way.

Posted on October 3, 2014 at 11:41 pm 0

On Label Whoring at Thrift Town

Awesome essay. Love the slightly sardonic but sincere tone. Hope your luck turns around. Ever tried to get a state job? From a former Sacramentan

Posted on July 10, 2014 at 8:43 pm 0

On A $124,421 Student Debt Story

I thought this was well-written and thought-provoking. Chad and his family took a risk, a big risk, but they seemed to go in (esp. his dad) with more knowledge about the the risk they were taking than many families. It reminded me of the Guy de Maupassant story, The Necklace, but with a happier ending (at least so far). Anyone who can live that spartan a life for that number of years deserves a lot of credit. You know who doesn't come off that great: Tufts. I felt like I was reading another NYU story. One thing I wondered: If he could do it all again, would Chad do things differently--maybe not do early decision, go to UConn, or deferring for a year to work full-time and save up.

Posted on June 26, 2014 at 1:48 pm 0

On Is First-Hand Experience Necessary to Understand Poverty?

@boringbunny Because living (even temporarily) with poor people would actually force a person to interact with/relate to people who are in fact poor. The point of the Atlantic story is that not only does almost no one in the Senate or House of Reps have any actual experience w/poverty but most don't even KNOW anyone who is poor. How can realistic and compassionate approaches to people in poverty be crafted by people w/no knowledge of the way in which poverty limits choices? And, of course, there's the fact that most rich people in the U.S. self-identify as "middle class"--an understandable impulse but one that clouds their understanding of people in lower socioeconomic strata.

Posted on June 3, 2014 at 10:14 pm 1

On Is First-Hand Experience Necessary to Understand Poverty?

I do not watch "reality" TV at all--no Survivor, no Housewives, no Jersey Shore, no nothing. But … I WOULD totally watch U.S. senators and congresspeople living in a housing project for two-week stints. I would also watch business people who have opinions about our "education system" teach a K-12 class for two weeks. Either of those would be riveting television (to me if not anyone else).

Posted on June 3, 2014 at 8:35 pm 1

On On the Scourge of 'Office Speak'

Megan R.: Is the color of your former co-worker's hair relevant to to your post?

Posted on June 3, 2014 at 8:21 pm 1

On Another Commencement Speaker Down, Hundreds To Go

My commencement speaker at Smith was the economist John Kenneth Galbraith. Also don't remember a word he said, though I do remember trying desperately to pay attention. I have been disappointed to see the protests against Birgeneau, Lagarde, and Rice. While I do think all have made questionable decisions (some more than others), they all have engaged in public service of a type. And which national/international leader hasn't made questionable decisions that may have seemed right at the time? Maybe Gandhi?

Posted on May 14, 2014 at 8:13 pm 0

On Logan, Where Have You Been?

@madrassoup This exactly. Logan has a distinct style: wryly ironic, a tad edgy, gently sardonic--I can't describe it exactly, but I miss it. Wish you could do a regular weekly feature here.

Posted on May 1, 2014 at 10:09 pm 1