On In Support of Credit Card Points, With Caveats

@BornSecular Yeah, this is me. For whatever reason, the numbers I see on a computer screen are way more real to me than actual dollar bills. Once it's out of the account, I am GOING to spend it; the only question is on what.

Posted on May 17, 2013 at 1:31 pm 0

On In Support of Credit Card Points, With Caveats

I've only had a credit card for a year and a half and have no other credit history, and they won't approve me for any more than $750. I have it set up to be due the day after my midmonth (aka, non-rent) paycheck goes through, and since that's more than $750, I can always pay it on time. Unfortunately since I had no credit history it's one of those blanket 1% cash back deals. I wish I could get something with tiered rewards for groceries or restaurants, but I applied for an Amazon card a couple months ago and they rejected me, so ... once spurned, twice shy, or whatever. (And STILL every time I place an order on Amazon they try to sell their card to me. What is the point of advertising things you won't follow through on???)

Posted on May 17, 2013 at 1:30 pm 0

On Friday Estimate

Tonight: yoga class or run (free), and then going out with friends ($40) Tomorrow: hopefully another yoga class or run depending on the weather (and how much I drink tonight), farmer's market visit ($15), then a house party ($10 for wine) Sunday: No plans, but let's allot $30 for unexpected brunch/takeout/drugstore/grocery expenses. = $95.

Posted on May 17, 2013 at 1:24 pm 0

On When Your Brain Chemistry Screws Up All Your Relationships (Even at Work)

@hopelessshade Haha, my friends and I call it "the sadz," in an attempt to inject some humor in the situation. (It sort of helps.)

Posted on May 16, 2013 at 5:07 pm 0

On When Your Brain Chemistry Screws Up All Your Relationships (Even at Work)

Ugh, I relate to so much of this. Especially the situations where you can keep it together - I feel like most of the time when I'm in public/with friends/at work/etc. I'm either genuinely happy or at least able to fake it enough, but if I spend more than an hour or so alone at home it turns into a one-way ticket to despair and self-loathing.

Posted on May 16, 2013 at 5:06 pm 0

On The Triumphant Return of Do 1 Thing

I called the New York Times to cancel my Sunday home delivery - they got me on a good deal back in January, but the last two months' worth of papers have been lying unopened in a pile in my room. I feel sort of bad for not supporting journalism, but also I am broke, so.

Posted on May 16, 2013 at 4:31 pm 0

On The Story of My Secondhand Stuff

80% of the furniture in my house has, as far as I can tell, been gifted by past tenants who were too lazy to move it out. There are four bedrooms; three of the former residents moved out in November, and when I and my current roommates replaced them, we were presented with copious kitchenware, a living room with three couches and a coffee table, a separate table for the entrance area, a dining room table and chairs, and copious common-area shelving. It's kind of weird, but God knows that if I had to purchase and transport the furnishings for an entire house every meal would be an indoor picnic.

Posted on May 14, 2013 at 12:36 pm 0

On What Percentage of Your Pay Do You Spend on Rent?

I live in DC with three roommates (although one lives in the basement, so I only share the kitchen with two people and the bathroom with one) and pay 37% of my take-home on rent. I would love to be paying less - right now I have to seriously discipline myself in order to save more than $100 or $150 a month, and I'm not a profligate spender.

Posted on May 14, 2013 at 9:59 am 0

On I Want to Live Alone

@aeroaeroaero I had to read this exchange three times to figure out that you were not actually having a conversation with yourself. Apparently my brain stops reading usernames after the first two letters ...

Posted on May 14, 2013 at 9:44 am 2

On Raising Twin Girls, and Building a Future in a New Home

I am basically struck dumb by people my age who manage to keep another human being (or two!) alive, seeing as I can barely manage to keep my own self fed and watered at 26, but I did want to say A++ on those baby names!!! Iris is #1 on my mental list of girl names, and Fiona switches between #2 and #3, depending on how much Fiona Apple I've been listening to lately.

Posted on May 7, 2013 at 12:54 pm 0