On A Triple Feature for When You're Feeling 30(ish) and Not Flirty and Not Thriving :/

Oh my god I never got past the first 15 minutes of Young Adult because OH MY GOD. The Diet Coke and the stumbling around early in the morning and the shaking the ink cartridge and the staring at the word document and the Ben and Jerry's in the motel room bathroom...oh my god. Oh my god. I was trying to watch that movie WHILE EATING BEN AND JERRY'S AND DRINKING DIET COKE. I felt smug about not being a sociopathic alcoholic for 37 seconds and then I started crying hysterically and watched "Emma" until I felt better (took several days).

Posted on January 23, 2014 at 5:44 pm 0

On When Bill Gates Is Your Secret Santa

But what I really want to know is what Bill Gates got as a gift! What do you get Bill Gates???

Posted on December 19, 2013 at 3:44 pm 0

On Zagat on Tipping During the Holidays

@Ellie I think either a week's or a month's subscription amount, whichever one feels right.

Posted on December 17, 2013 at 1:27 am 0

On Playing Professional Basketball Didn't Work Out, But Working as an Actuary Did

The thing that rubbed me the wrong way was that this dude got his first job by literally just walking into a rich dude who liked basketball. I mean, that's not Adam's fault, but I just feel like I have read so many stories lately of people who are in incredible financial positions that are the result of both the person's hard work AND the person being fortuitously located at the front of the line when capitalism-winning lottery tickets were being handed out. Capitalism kills love, is what I'm saying.

Posted on November 22, 2013 at 6:19 pm 0

On Internships Reevaluated Around the World and at Medill

I feel like the justification for continuing unpaid internships is the same as the justification for hazing- a delightful combo of "Well, I did it and it worked out just fine!" and "I had to do it; why should you get off easy?"

Posted on October 3, 2013 at 12:40 am 1

On Walk Away With the Money You've Won Or Keep Going?

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Posted on September 26, 2013 at 7:38 pm 1

On New Job Gotten

Never apologize for Boar's Head, Mary Jo! Congratulations on the new gig.

Posted on September 10, 2013 at 10:29 pm 0

On The High Cost of Child Care

Man, I read this in Linda Hirshman's book "Get to Work" (okay, I read it in a review of her book, WHAT), but part of her argument in that book was about the logical fallacy of thinking of day care costs as coming out of the mother's paycheck. Apparently, that's a super common way of thinking of the cost, probably a combination of the idea of childcare being women's work being super ingrained and couples doing the math about mom's paycheck going away during maternity leave. Between women making less in general (hello, wage gap) and daycare being so expensive, it seems "logical" to have mom stay home if you think of her paycheck as the "day care" check and she then barely breaks even. Taking that time off with the kids hurts women's salaries for the rest of their lives. Hirshman's argument was that couples should think of the day care check just like any other joint bill- half comes from her pay check and half from his. Now, whenever I read these articles I scream, "What about THEIR FATHER? How much does HE make? HUH? What's HIS share of the day care?" That might be way I'm, uh, not married.

Posted on August 22, 2013 at 5:31 am 0

On It Gets Better? Dealing With Student Debt a Few Years Down the Line

The NYT article mentions that her mom lives in Alexandria Bay, in northern New York. I'm from nearish to there, and it's not a great place to try to service a 100k student loan debt. At all. I would be really interested to read something on The Billfold on how the "move in with your parents and pay off debt/save" advice works when your parents live in a depressed rural area.

Posted on August 7, 2013 at 7:22 pm 3

On Change Your Life Money

@stuffisthings They go into it at the link, but basically she broke a very big story about steroids a few years ago and then wrote a book about it.

Posted on July 15, 2013 at 7:48 pm 0