Oh my god I never got past the first 15 minutes of Young Adult because OH MY GOD. The Diet Coke and the stumbling around early in the morning and the shaking the ink cartridge and the staring at the word document and the Ben and Jerry's in the motel room bathroom...oh my god. Oh my god. I was trying to watch that movie WHILE EATING BEN AND JERRY'S AND DRINKING DIET COKE. I felt smug about not being a sociopathic alcoholic for 37 seconds and then I started crying hysterically and watched "Emma" until I felt better (took several days).
But what I really want to know is what Bill Gates got as a gift! What do you get Bill Gates???
@Ellie I think either a week's or a month's subscription amount, whichever one feels right.
The thing that rubbed me the wrong way was that this dude got his first job by literally just walking into a rich dude who liked basketball. I mean, that's not Adam's fault, but I just feel like I have read so many stories lately of people who are in incredible financial positions that are the result of both the person's hard work AND the person being fortuitously located at the front of the line when capitalism-winning lottery tickets were being handed out. Capitalism kills love, is what I'm saying.
I feel like the justification for continuing unpaid internships is the same as the justification for hazing- a delightful combo of "Well, I did it and it worked out just fine!" and "I had to do it; why should you get off easy?"
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Never apologize for Boar's Head, Mary Jo! Congratulations on the new gig.
Man, I read this in Linda Hirshman's book "Get to Work" (okay, I read it in a review of her book, WHAT), but part of her argument in that book was about the logical fallacy of thinking of day care costs as coming out of the mother's paycheck. Apparently, that's a super common way of thinking of the cost, probably a combination of the idea of childcare being women's work being super ingrained and couples doing the math about mom's paycheck going away during maternity leave. Between women making less in general (hello, wage gap) and daycare being so expensive, it seems "logical" to have mom stay home if you think of her paycheck as the "day care" check and she then barely breaks even. Taking that time off with the kids hurts women's salaries for the rest of their lives. Hirshman's argument was that couples should think of the day care check just like any other joint bill- half comes from her pay check and half from his. Now, whenever I read these articles I scream, "What about THEIR FATHER? How much does HE make? HUH? What's HIS share of the day care?" That might be way I'm, uh, not married.
The NYT article mentions that her mom lives in Alexandria Bay, in northern New York. I'm from nearish to there, and it's not a great place to try to service a 100k student loan debt. At all. I would be really interested to read something on The Billfold on how the "move in with your parents and pay off debt/save" advice works when your parents live in a depressed rural area.
@stuffisthings They go into it at the link, but basically she broke a very big story about steroids a few years ago and then wrote a book about it.