@fletchasketch "Sales associate" always bugged me, especially when 90% of the job was being a cashier.
I have had poorly paid/unpaid jobs where I was a cast member! As these involved actually performing on stage, I didn't find the title too objectionable.
I think all races can agree that nobody wants to have real conservations during the morning rush.
I'm from Illinois, and I don't get the "Lincoln is on it" argument. He's also on the 5-dollar bill. We'll still have a Lincoln currency. He'll still be on Mount Rushmore and have a big memorial in Washington. His former home is nicely preserved in Springfield, and they've got his presidential library/museum there, too. "Lincoln impersonator" is an actual job, and according to one I spoke with, far more lucrative than regular acting. I'm sure the 49 non-Land of Lincoln states won't forget him.
@Runawaytwin This is a very legitimate fear. Poor women (especially poor women of color) get enough crap as it is.
@Worgchef I thought so too, and we're right! There's another novel called North & South (first in a trilogy) that takes place around the Civil War, and it was turned into miniseries with Swayze. (I must admit, I find Armitage far more compelling. The story he stars in, too.)
@Beans My first cellphone wasn't too far off from a local auto body shop. I would get angry voice messages demanding to know why they never picked up or called back. (Um, because you called a random high schooler who keeps her phone off for hours while she's in class.)
I hate clutter but love traveling, also my favorite dish set came from Ikea so it's not like I have refined taste. Basically I am pro pay-for-honeymoon. I think the part where people marry later and probably already have their own household goods is a factor in the honeyfund thing. One couple I know registered at Target for things like games for their new Wii back in the day.
@spottedwren Yeah, I was helping my parents do some major spring cleaning a few weeks back, and while a few items were remembered as wedding presents, they had no idea who they came from. Except for some things that came from my dad's best friend/best man, and I think my dad isn't going to forget the guy he's known since they were both 7.