@bgprincipessa I am both good with $$ and am making more of it, and it seems like whenever anyone is aware of that balance (different from typical gender norms), their first reaction is some variety of 'hmmm why are you even with him if he's so poor/not providing for you/you will probably always make more than him, dump him now before you regret it later'. Which is weird and insulting because that is not the reaction people have if the genders are reversed, but after you hear it so much it starts to eat at you a little? Bf always makes enough to pull his own weight, too, so it's not like he's a leech or lout or layabout. jeez
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@bgprincipessa I am both good with $$ and am making more of it, and it seems like whenever anyone is aware of that balance (different from typical gender norms), their first reaction is some variety of 'hmmm why are you even with him if he's so poor/not providing for you/you will probably always make more than him, dump him now before you regret it later'. Which is weird and insulting because that is not the reaction people have if the genders are reversed, but after you hear it so much it starts to eat at you a little? Bf always makes enough to pull his own weight, too, so it's not like he's a leech or lout or layabout. jeez