On Fronting

@Josh Michtom@facebook Yes, this is very true! I'd say the nightclub example falls pretty squarely in the "necessary but not sufficient" category, for example. In my industry, it might be less important to actually have the lovely brownstone/constant brunches/silk blouses to have a certain comfort level with them (the dread cultural fit.) I'm doing pretty ok in a quiet part of Queens and an H&M blazer--but the pull of those cultural markers is very strong. And amusingly, I'm dating a lefty public interest law student who's encountering the same issues you did. She's doing the unpaid gigs and just taking out additional loans, which though her overall debt burden is low is still a big and scary gamble--even in the best possible scenario, it's not like she'll be raking in the cash after graduation.

Posted on April 2, 2014 at 2:39 pm 0

On Fronting

This made me think of Tressie McMillan Cottom's amazing essay on why people (especially people of color) spend more than they can afford on designer clothes, etc.: http://tressiemc.com/2013/10/29/the-logic-of-stupid-poor-people/ I think her argument might make sense here, too - it actually sounds pretty logical for someone who wants to work in club promotion to wear designer T-shirts. In my context (white girl in a "creative industry"), this stuff takes a different form, but it still exists. It's pretty standard for people to be like, "I'm so broke. Let's go to the happy hour with $3 wells," but you still need the obligatory J. Crew uniform and an apartment in a "charming" and/or "cool" part of Brooklyn. (I still haven't given up on this future.)

Posted on April 2, 2014 at 11:36 am 0

On Friday Estimate

I am sick and also busy, so this should be a cheap weekend: Friday: Dinner with gf, $80 (assuming I'll pay for us both, since she's been buying more groceries, etc. than I have lately.) Saturday: Working all day, maybe at a cafe? $10. Also, our grocery situation is desperate ($30.) In the evening, dinner with gf's parents ($0) possibly followed by drinks ($20?) Sunday: More work! More coffee! $10. Total: $150. So not actually that cheap. Eh.

Posted on March 21, 2014 at 10:12 am 0

On Friday Estimate

I'm getting over a cold, so I'm going to try not to do much this weekend. Friday: Gym? Probably not, because "getting over a cold" is a really good excuse to stay home and drink hot toddies and watch Scandal instead. $0. Saturday: Farmer's market = $20? Also, I need picture frames and a tray (possibly just another picture frame!), so I may go thrift shopping and/or to the Brooklyn Flea. $40? Friend is having a birthday party at night, so $10 for a bottle of wine. Sunday: I'm going to try to do the thing where I cook a bunch of meals for the week, so $20 for miscellaneous groceries. If it's nice, I'll go for a long run. Total: $90, but I'll round up to $100.

Posted on March 7, 2014 at 12:14 pm 0

On The Ivy League Churn

@Nibbler I'd like to think so!

Posted on February 14, 2014 at 5:52 pm 0

On The Ivy League Churn

@rhinoceranita Brown?

Posted on February 14, 2014 at 2:24 pm 0

On Friday Estimate

I just spent $12 on Chop't, but I'm not counting that, and I don't care. So: Friday: Going to the gym, then meeting gf after an event thing she has to go to for late dinner/drinks. $40? Saturday: There are basically no groceries in my home. I'm going to fix that by spending like $80 at the farmer's market and Trader Joe's. Sunday: Brunch with some friends ($20), followed by coffee and/or a bar to do work. Total: Under $175, I hope!

Posted on February 7, 2014 at 1:26 pm 0

On Getting Teens More Interested in Thinking About Money

@forget it i quit We did it in our seventh grade Civics class--everyone had to draw a career and salary and choose a home/car/list of groceries. It was really easy, because we didn't have kids or even contributions to retirement or health insurance that I remember. (I was slightly marked down because we were supposed to buy clothes that we could wear to work, and I bought a $100 vampire dress from Hot Topic instead.) Needless to say, it was not particularly helpful. It was maybe the opposite, actually, since it was oversimplified to the point that I came away thinking that life on an $18,000 salary was going to be really fun and easy. That's my big concern about these kinds of simulations.

Posted on February 5, 2014 at 1:28 pm 1

On How Did You Get That Awesome Job?

Jobs in my field do not exist without networking. I did get a mostly-unpaid (we got a daily transit and lunch stipend) internship just by applying to an online posting. When that internship was coming to a close, I found another job posting, but I asked a friend who worked at the company about it, and she forwarded my resume to the person who was actually doing the hiring (as opposed to HR.) It's possible I could have gotten the job by applying cold, but I'm sure knowing someone didn't hurt. My second job was not posted anywhere - I found out about it because the person hiring sent an email to some people, one of whom forwarded it to some other people, one of whom forwarded it to me. Number one job hunting tip = be privileged and also lucky.

Posted on February 5, 2014 at 12:35 pm 0

On Deduct Your Yachts While You Still Can, Young Taxpayers

@jmdj You can still deduct a boat mortgage if it's your primary residence. This is presumably to close a loophole in which people are claiming their fancy boats as "residences" when they're actually just used for recreation. That said, it does seem a little unfair that you can deduct interest for more than one mortgage, period, boat or non-boat.

Posted on February 4, 2014 at 12:02 pm 1