On Quitting in a Blaze of Glory, NYC Waitress Edition

A finance bro who's hiding his debilitating insecurities by being a raging, misogynistic pig? how original.

Posted on September 18, 2014 at 11:23 am 1

On On Feminism And Fashion

I have a hard time with this. High fashion is the ultimate driver of our throwaway $5 shirt culture. Without celebs, magazines, TV shows, etc, constantly pushing the newest fashion trend (that only the 1% can afford), we wouldn't have birthed the environment-and-human-rights-destroying Forever21s of the world. And on top of ALL of that, they promote unrealistic body shapes, which has been shown in study after study to harm young people. Personally, I worked closely with a huge fashion conglomerate and the execs were 75% men. They were assholes to boot.

Posted on September 11, 2014 at 12:39 pm 0

On The Cost of Things: One Year of Breastfeeding

I don't have the detailed breakdown, but I do know that after the upfront costs, (that I admittedly skimped on; hello hand pump), I ended up saving - er, not spending? - close to $2k from the 7ish months we breastfed. Part of this was due to the formula he would've needed as it was a bit more expensive than the norm.

Posted on August 28, 2014 at 12:58 pm 0

On The Cost of Throwing a Pony Party for Your Seven-Year-Old Daughter Who's Really Into Horses

Such a fantastic idea! Filing it away for future kiddie parties for my son.

Posted on August 26, 2014 at 12:42 pm 0

On Working When You Have No Sleep, A Guide

Solidarity sister! Some dude who went through boot camp (they apparently exist on 3 hours of sleep), told me to chug as much water as I could. It helped quite a bit, especially when you get to that level of exhaustion where food/drink seems especially difficult and coffee makes you twitch. Maybe just me? Anyways, it gets better. Promise.

Posted on August 21, 2014 at 12:23 pm 0

On Can Feminism and Breastfeeding Coexist, Take 2

After exclusive breastfeeding for 6 months I decided that I am pro-formula.

Posted on August 19, 2014 at 3:59 pm 1

On It Has Been Made Clear to Me That I Cannot Have It All

@Meaghano and of course NIPPLE CONFUSION. At 3am when my exhaustion made me hallucinate I was thrilled to recall all the "non judgey" articles I had read that basically said bottle feed = instant latch issues forever. Thankfully my kiddo seemed fine with whatev but damn was it stressful. I hope its better for you - sounds like you're doing great. It's tough stuff!

Posted on August 18, 2014 at 10:08 pm 0

On It Has Been Made Clear to Me That I Cannot Have It All

Oof. It's so so tough juggling all that you want to do and all that's expected of you as a mom in this day and age. As always, much of the struggle with "have it all" would be mitigated if this godforsaken country had paid maternity leave. A feminist cause if there ever was one.

Posted on August 18, 2014 at 12:59 pm 1

On The Massage Conundrum: WWYD?

Two at the known place! Also if I ever win a lottery or somehow gain literal millions, I would hire a full time masseuse to just follow me around and provide me massages at a whim. Of course they would be paid well and full benefits and all that. BUT ! on demand massages OMG.

Posted on July 31, 2014 at 11:55 am 1

On Concerning the Moral Obligations of the Wealthy

@Josh Michtom@facebook I am nearly double the median and I do NOT feel anywhere near comfortable. Damn my stupid county. Your second issue somewhat begets a question about defining real world benefit. Or, perhaps, what types of organizations/causes/etc would be tithe-able..

Posted on July 29, 2014 at 3:58 pm 0