@Cara Roellgen@facebook YEP. I signed up for the waitlist at our first choice daycare when I was four months pregnant with #1. She's 15 months old and we're still waiting. I signed up #2 the very day after I got a positive pregnancy test.
My kiddo is in daycare 45 hours a week, at a cost to us of about $5/hr. I know this isn't even close to being a fair rate for the level of love and care they give her every day. But that $900 a month is still pretty close to the edge of what we can afford. We have a second one on the way, and I don't know how we're going to swing it, really - and this is in a two-parent household where we both make fairly good salaries. The people who care for our children deserve to be paid more, but childcare is already the second-highest monthly expense (after rent/mortgage) of every parent I know. I don't know what the solution is.
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Loved this! Am glad I read it right before going to bed, because I feel like it ended my day on a high note.
@nell I don't know about Apple, but I know FB (and a lot of the other big tech companies) already have great maternity benefits in place: four months of paid leave for both mothers and fathers, plus a few thousand in "baby cash" to help pay for childcare. Given that, I see this as taking those policies one step further, and a smart choice for them if they want to attract and retain top talent. But I totally see your point and if this was say, an investment bank offering the same benefit, I would definitely see it with a more jaded eye.
I come from a family of insomniacs and frequent travelers, and have heard great things about melatonin for both. Me, I'm an Ambien girl, or at least I was before I got pregnant. Four months into my first sleep-deprived pregnancy, I discovered ASMR videos on YouTube and they changed my life (well, my bedtime routine anyway). It sounds super-weird and doesn't work for everyone, but I have a few triggers that make me sleepy (head massages, hair brushing, spa treatments), and every night I just pull up a video, pop in my earbuds, and I'm out in less than ten minutes like magic.
@EmilyAnomaly Self-assessments are the worst. The WORST. I dread them. Two hours of trying to spew bullshit about myself and everything I've accomplished in the past several months, along with evaluating my 'core competencies'. Ugh. My Mom recommended this book to me though and it's made the process at least 50% less painful: http://www.amazon.com/Effective-Phrases-Performance-Appraisals-Evaluations/dp/1882423127/ref=sr_1_7?ie=UTF8&qid=1412885664&sr=8-7&keywords=performance+review (there are tons of these types of books on Amazon, and some are even cheaper).
@JD123 I signed in specifically to recommend Decatur. Am reading this while waiting for my lunch in the town square; will hit the independent (children's) bookstore on my way out. Meaghan, it's the BEST.
@honey cowl AGREE. For years I ate baby carrots until one day I was out of them and forced to actually wash and peel a real carrot (which takes about 10 seconds). And lo, my eyes were opened. Real carrots taste a hundred times fresher. Team Real Carrots!