On The Cost of Things: Pregnancy

@xtinamartinson Maternity leggings! I don't think I'm ever going back to the regular kind.

Posted on January 30, 2015 at 7:07 pm 0

On The Cost of Things: Pregnancy

All my maternity clothes came from either Target, H&M, or Kohl's (Motherhood Maternity has a line there called Oh Baby! that is cute and always on sale). You really don't have to spend a ton to find cute stuff nowadays...I've amassed a pretty big/comprehensive collection of maternity clothes (we don't have a washer or dryer and I do not have the energy to go to the laundromat every other week) and I have probably spent about $500 total. The belly bands are definitely a lifesaver - I have a really long inseam and it is virtually impossible to find pants that are long enough, and that goes double for maternity pants. If I get too big to wear my regular jeans, I'm going into full-on legging mode.

Posted on January 30, 2015 at 7:05 pm 0

On Chatting About Work Trips and Expense Guilt

I have absolutely no expense guilt whatsoever. I don't travel as much as I used to, but even so, my attitude has always been that I am giving up my free time, seeing my loved ones, sleeping in my own bed, etc. etc. for the better part of a week, so the least the company can do is buy me a nice meal at a good restaurant every night and put me up in a decent hotel. Public transit vs. cabs I just consider a safety issue - if I don't know a city I don't feel comfortable navigating its subway or bus system, plus I have back issues so I try to avoid carrying luggage any distance longer than a few blocks. One of the more interesting pieces of advice given to me when I was first starting out was that, on a first business trip with a new company or in a new position, one should go a little over the top with one's expenses because that sets the tone for the future. I haven't necessarily followed that advice, but I do think it's good to set the bar on the higher side. I did, however, accidentally get a reputation for being totally over the top at my current job: a group of us were in Europe for a trade show and on the last night, two of us decided to go to a three Michelin-starred restaurant on our own dime. Right around the time our desserts came, our boss saw us sitting on the patio as he passed and actually crashed our dinner with a couple of additional coworkers, ordered some more wine for everyone, and then despite our protests paid most of bill, which ran into the multiple thousands of dollars. He will never let us live that one down.

Posted on September 12, 2014 at 6:00 pm 1

On Some Costs Associated With My Roommate’s Boyfriend

This was what led me to move out of my last apartment. My roommate's boyfriend moved in with us, unbeknownst to me (I assumed he was just staying till he found a place of his own). The problem with him was not that he used my products, since in that household I was definitely the one with the girliest products, but that he was unemployed, completely lacking in ambition, and would sit at home in front of the television all day watching basketball. It didn't matter what team, just any basketball that happened to be on. So unless I happened upon the empty living room during one of his rare trips out of the house, there was virtually no chance of me ever getting any access to the television. Oh, and for every 12-pack of beer I bought, he helped himself to at least two. I know my roommate rationalized it by telling herself that my boyfriend usually slept over too, so things were even, but my boyfriend would be there from 8:30 PM till 7 AM max, never showered there, never did laundry, etc.

Posted on April 7, 2014 at 12:51 pm 0

On Buying a Wedding Dress When You Hate Yourself And Love Money

This is extremely relevant to my interests. Before I was even engaged, I made the mistake of falling in love with one specific, very unique dress that turned out to retail for $5,200(!). In the months since the proposal, I've been monitoring pre-owned wedding dress sites in an effort to buy it resale, but because I am a giantess, I'm limited to dresses that have never had the hem taken up, so it hasn't really been working out. This very morning I decided that I am just going to go to David's Bridal and buy a Vera Wang White gown, which would be $1500 at the absolute most...even if I could buy a sample of the other one, it would be absolutely insane to spend 20% of my budget on a dress.

Posted on October 29, 2013 at 6:03 pm 0

On What Would You Do With a $20,000 Windfall?

I would pay off my student loans and car loan. I'd still be about $700 short, but close enough!

Posted on October 8, 2013 at 2:48 pm 0

On What Does It Cost to Live in the Overlooked Parts of a City?

One plus of SF is, if you are willing to live with roommates, you can typically find a room in a house that has been rented by the same master tenant for several years and thus effectively pay whatever the market rate was that many years ago. Rent control allows rents to be raised only a very small amount each year, so finding something in the $750-1000 range is possible (though HIGHLY competitive, think 100+ people showing up for open houses, etc.), However, if you are looking to rent a new place cheap, I wouldn't even bother with the Fillmore (getting trendy) or the TL (many parts are not safe). I'd look at the Sunset, the Richmond, or maybe the way outer Mission if you don't like being enveloped in fog 80% of the time.

Posted on September 11, 2013 at 1:57 pm 0

On Two Writers With Control Issues Talk About Money

This is really interesting to me. I have a degree in journalism like many of the writers and commenters on this site, but I got a corporate marketing job pretty much straight out of college and have never even for a second considered freelance writing in the seven years since. To me, the financial security is so much more important than any semblance of control I might get from being my own boss. The only situation in which I would be open to freelancing would be after having kids, and assuming my husband's income would give us a solid safety net. But till then, I'd rather work for someone else, make a quite a bit more money than I'd be likely to make on my own, enjoy my awesome corporate benefits (preferably until after I have had any children I plan to have because $$$$ hospital bills!), and consider that possibility once I actually have some offspring who might benefit from me having a more flexible schedule. Incidentally, this is why I have a really hard time relating to the New York writer community-focused content on this site and would love to see more from people who have made more diverse career choices. I know some people manage to do super well for themselves freelancing but I would just be so stressed out all the time, trying to hustle for the next job.

Posted on September 3, 2013 at 2:45 pm 3

On What Did You Spend on Your Last Wedding Gift?

@deepomega I actually disagree...at present my entire supply of cookware consists of a cast-iron skillet, an enameled saucepan, and a stockpot, all three of which are Le Creuset, and they are a million times better than the shitty pots and pans I had before I moved cross country. Worth every penny, especially if you get them on sales from the outlet or cutleryandmore.com.

Posted on August 29, 2013 at 6:47 pm 1

On Two Years at a Standing Desk

I have a standing desk and I love it. Some days I stand all day, and when I do sit, it's never for more than an hour. An anti-fatigue mat is key though...it takes all the pressure off your joints so it's not nearly as tiring.

Posted on August 29, 2013 at 6:19 pm 0