the next time your skinny girlfriends gather around their salads and complain about how they feel so fat these days, remember that what they’re actually doing is voicing their very real fear that their privilege might be taken away from them — their social capital and, with it, their actual capital. ugh thank you for this xo fattily yours
oh my god, all y'all with parents. i'm jealous and sad.
@garysixpack or don't ever get convicted of a felony of any kind, even a non-violent one, especially if you're not white and wealthy, because you will have trouble finding a job. that's why Ban The Box is very, very important.
@EmmaP sometimes "extras" are, like, health care costs, though. sounds like you were also very healthy, which is also very important.
@WayDownSouth it's good? it's made with local, excellent bread that is cut very thick? they use a restaurant kitchen toaster so it's toasted very evenly? there's a lot of butter on it that is spread very evenly? but does it matter? why is your assumption that this must be some sort of charity thing because she's "mentally ill" and you think paying for toast is stupid, rather than that there's a product people actually want to eat?
@WayDownSouth i understand you're trying to be kind, but it's not a fucking sheltered workshop. it's a successful business that's nearly 6 years old! because she works hard and her shit rules. i lived around the corner & went there every day for the best cappuccinos i have ever had, and the toast is next-fucking-level.
@Morbo nnnnnope. I used to work in this field, with low-income students. There is virtually no evidence that these classes make a difference. No positive longitudinal effect has been captured at all.
Estatesales.net has a terrific email alert that will send you listings for sales in your area. Most listings come with photos, so you can get a decent sense of whether a sale is worth the drive. I hate you. :( I mean, I hate me. :(
i just spent $75 at whole foods so i could eat things i like (chicken tikka masala, key lime pie) and survive over the weekend (pb&j) and not hate everything (flowers). everyone in my family is dead, in prison, or estranged, and i wasn't invited anywhere so i am binge-watching TV and waiting for the day to be over.
@EM i LIKE my mustache tattoo.