I recently stayed with two friends while visiting their city, and to thank them I told them that I wanted to take them out for dinner.
“No, no!” they said. “We’re just happy to host you while you’re visiting!”
I planned to pay for dinner anyway, and when we went out to dinner on our last night and the check arrived, I pulled out my card and insisted on paying—but my friends ended up handing their card to our waitress and told her to just split the bill.
This may seem like a silly question, but is there a nice way of insisting on picking up the check? — B.
It's a rare opportunity, but here's the thing: It pays very little, with no room for negotiation and little room for advancement in the company (it's a startup). I'm afraid that after months of applying, this is the best I can get and I shouldn't turn it down since jobs are so hard to come by, especially in New York media.
My boyfriend and I don't make much money, but we've managed to build a healthy cushion, don't have credit card debt and have reasonable plans for our student debt. So this really is just "fun money" that we can use for a wedding in the next year or two.
I'm thinking of giving my poor coworker who is here as a contractor some money. Is that weird?