On the Last Day of The Billfold’s Wedding Month, Let’s Talk Divorce

Here we are at the end of The Billfold’s month-long look at weddings. It’s worth at least one article reflecting on divorces.

What Marriage (And Remarriage) Has To Do With Money

re-marriage for women is correlated with a number of positives, whereas uggghhhhh staying divorced for a woman can spell d i s a s t e r

Talking About Money And Splitting the Cost of Child-Rearing After a Divorce

Spring is in the air, and as Alfred, Lord Tennyson famously said, it’s the time when a young man’s fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love. Truly, this is an optimistic moment: buds are bursting through frost, fans of lousy baseball teams feel improvident hope, and in all matters romantic, we cannot help but think of the good things yet to come—the spark of new attraction, the idyllic domesticity of a shared apartment, the stomach-flutteringly massive notion of getting married. So let me bring you down to earth: There’s a good chance you’re going to get divorced, by which time you may have kids, and on top of all the other heartbreaks, you may embark on a lifetime of difficult conversations about money. Let’s talk about this.

My Family Has Forgotten the Lean Years, But I Haven’t

I see my father about once a year. The last time I saw him, at a family dinner, we talked about Millennials, and how he had spent his twenties.

Babies and Divorce

A recent episode of the Freakonomics podcast looked at the following question: Does having a baby girl or baby boy influence whether or not a couple decides to get a divorce or stay together for the kids? Some research says yes, families with first-born girls are likelier to get a divorce, though it all seems dubious to me since divorces are hyper personal and are caused by so many different things.

When Things Fall Apart: The Cost of Divorce

The last thing I ever expected out of my otherwise well-planned life was a divorce. I didn’t expect my marriage to last just 10 years and to be a single father at 37. Living through the financial impact of divorce has been like watching a tornado destroy what little I had built in my 15 years since finishing college.

A Conversation With a Single Mom Living on $40,000 a Year

Single Mom: I’m 42 years old, divorced, and a single mom of three elementary school-age kids. I work in the administration of a nonprofit. I live in a Maryland suburb of D.C.

Allen Iverson’s Life After the NBA

The Washington Post has a feature looking at how former NBA star Allen Iverson is doing three years after his last basketball game. It’s not good.

The Collapse of a Marriage

If you have a half hour to spare over lunch and want to read a terribly messy story about a couple’s five-year divorce battle in court, this is the story for you. It’s quite sad, especially for the children involved.

Rich Parent, Less Rich Parent: Squaring Up After Divorce

When your parents are divorced, you want to make everything as smooth as possible.