
This lady wrote to Prudence because she and her husband have
totally separate finances. Separate and unequal! He makes way more than she does, doesn't share, and she is "pretty much broke all of the time." Prudie suggests counseling and/or splitting. I suggest skipping the counseling.

New York magazine did a few case studies on roommates who live in New York.

A discussion: What is it that happens with money in relationships? I’ve seen it with my parents, with friends: with the exception of infidelity, no one thing has wrenched apart more couples than money, and the value judgments, petty arguments, and power struggles that come with it.